July 16, 2008...5:15 pm

Coming home to three sons

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Having been on the road for the last nine days (the longest I’ve been away from my family), I notice things about my sons that I’ve always known, but being away has heightened my awareness.

  • Everything is a sword: if it’s long and straight then it’s either a light saber or a pirate’s sword.  I gave them three foam swords when I got home…there’s been some serious swashbuckling since.
  • How they carry their swords: a sword is either shoved down a pant leg (sometimes inside the underwear) or down the shirt in the back (ninja style).
  • They want to go to my meetings:  it’s funny because as adults we avoid meetings (or too many meetings).  The boys want to attend meetings.  I’ve always told myself that I will bring my family on as many ministry trips as possible.
  • They like to draw: usually volcanoes and spiders.
  • They like to come into my home office:  this morning I think I had 5 boys in my office (2 were being babysat).  They like to draw on my whiteboard.  The current drawing is of a volcano covering a whole village in fiery lava.
  • They like to wrestle: first one to tears loses.
  • They have great imaginations: they’ve introduced me to galactic cities, epic battles, monstrous fighter vehicles, fearsome armies, and deadly dinosaurs.
  • They pray really cute:  The innocent, sincere, and simple prayers of a child gotta sound sweet to Jesus.
  • They have unique personalities:  each one has a certain trait that I gravitate toward: Josiah’s physical-ness, Micah’s inquisitiveness, and Aaron’s independence.  That’s why I love them all the same.
  • They are growing up fast: my prayer is that they will grow up to be men who love God and lead others to do the same.

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  • I can really relate to your experience. I don’t travel that much, but when I am gone, it is for about a week at a time. And my kids always looked forward to dad coming home after a long trip with what they affectionately called “prize-ohs.” And one of our favorite places at home was the whiteboard posted low on the wall in Taylor’s bedroom!

  • Prize-ohs…that’s funny. That’s a good idea putting a whiteboard in Taylor’s room. I should give the kids their own.


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